I am a Warrior for Your Marriage!
Reach out to me!
Marriage is one of the most precious and most intimate commitments you will ever make to another person. Your wedding celebration was a luxurious and extraordinary event. You prepared for this day for months and months and now you are here, married and wondering how can you make it last. What skills do you need to love, honor and respect each other forever.
You believe in lasting love and happiness.
You want romance, trust and intimacy to last a lifetime.
You want life to flow in harmony, and ease.
You want to love and support each other and grow as a team.
You want to keep what you have built, a family, a home and a legacy.
My skills and tools will help you reach that goal!
I have made it my mission to teach you the skills to create lasting LOVE, to create a marriage built on self-leadership and communication, clarity and confidence. My methodology is easy, efficient and effective.
If you are stuck in frustration and uncertainty, not knowing what to do about your conflicts, disagreements and the unspoken hurt, reach out to me!
Book your 2-hour session with me!
Give yourself the gift of a ‘Get Unstuck Intensive’ session with me and change the way you see your relationship or your life shift forever.
It takes a coach to speak to your reality, to shake up old patterns and to help you uncover what you cannot see. A 2-hour session will give you clarity and confidence on what to do next.
Here starts my work as an empowerment coach. I teach and coach you the relationship skills that will support you during rough times. You will learn the communication and self-awareness skills that will empower you to gracefully speak your needs, to stand in your power, just when you think of giving in or giving up.
Years and years of trainings, a certification in leadership coaching and relationship coaching, EFT Small Trauma certification, have helped me transform my life and arrive at this powerful place of teaching you how to create lasting love. This new training has given me freedom, confidence and a new relationship.
I have found a short cut!
A 2-Hour session with me will give you power to decide what is next. You will have uncovered what is working and not working right now in your life or relationship, you will have received tools to take the next steps. Should you decide to work with me to transform and shift your life or marriage for good, I will give you the opportunity to work with me for a minimum of 3 months. It takes from 3 -9 month to transform your marriage, to shed the past and to learn the skills! This training is not for everyone. It takes commitment and willpower to create lasting change. The results are remarkable.
The vicious cycle of Blame and Shame
In my many years of coaching I learned that it is the unspoken upset, the unsaid, the silence, that has you trapped in loss of power, loss of love, loss of intimacy and connection.
You may think that your partner should know what you need.
You may even think that he or she does not care how you feel.
You may fight to be heard, seen and respected.
You may think that you need to leave this relationship.
You may get your needs met by complaining or shouting.
The vicious cycle of blame, shame, upset and resentment starts right here.
In my experience, good relationships fail for that very reason. One unspoken upset on top of another builds resentment over time. Resentment and LOVE cannot co-exist!
Your coach
A Leadership Coach and Relationship Expert, I have saved countless marriages, teaching women self-leadership, relationship and communication skills.
I teach and train WOMEN to be FEMININE leaders in their relationship and in life. A deep exploration into self-awareness leaves WOMEN empowered, confident, radiant and charismatic. It is the access to success! You will now have tools to take your relationship to renewed love and intimacy.
It is my superpower to support MEN of ages, successful and powerful men, who experience stress, frustration, disappointment, hurt, divorce or a breakdown in their life. Relationships, money and career are deeply related. I help MEN uncover what they need, how to speak those needs and I help them resolve deeply confidential relationship issues
If you are…
Frustrated, and struggling in your marriage.
Feeling unheard, unappreciated and disrespected.
Overwhelmed, overworked and stressed at home and at work.
Twisting yourself to get the attention and love you crave.
Sad because you no longer feel deep intimacy and connection.
Thinking your marriage is no longer working.
It is time you reach out to me!
20 years ago I left my own 1st marriage, thinking I had to leave to feel heard and seen, to feel loved and appreciated. After 33 years I left disappointed, hurt, sad and revengeful.
Do not do that!! The cost of not getting the best help is enormous. It is tragic!
Unless you are in an abusive relationship, you must check out all the possibilities to uncover the breakdown, to heal, to transform the past and learn the skills necessary to create peace and rebuild a brand new marriage!
You may have read books about it, you may have asked your parents or your friends for advice about conflicts that you have experienced. You have listened to their advice and it did not work for you.
You may have the tendency to hide, suppress or numb your pain and struggles to make sure nobody knows about it. You may pretend or say that you are fine and doing well, when in fact you are not. Ultimately, you may think that this relationship is no longer working for you and then you end it. This is a very painful moment.
In my experience, good relationships fail for that very reason. One unspoken upset on top of another builds resentment over time.
Give yourself the Gift of Coaching!
Here starts my work as an empowerment coach. I teach and coach you the relationship skills that will support you during rough times. You will learn the communication and self-awareness skills that will empower you to gracefully speak your needs, to stand in your power, just when you think of giving in or giving up.
Do not make the mistakes I made. All you may need is a set of new skills to create the relationship you want. You can learn those skills before you get married, during prime time of your marriage or later in life. The time is now!
My name is Sylvia Stauffer Neff, an Empowerment and Leadership Coach, and Relationship Expert. I have spent the last 15 years training and coaching, as well as developing programs to empower men and women to provide them with the clarity, the confidence and self-awareness to shift their life from loneliness and burnout to creating a life and career they desire.
I am happy to say that I have recreated a fabulous life with my beloved, my 2nd husband, in the mountains of Colorado, using my very own tools to reclaim LOVE and INTIMACY. We just got married, are deeply in love and live a balanced, fulfilling and harmonious life. My 3 sons and their families are very important to me and we travel often to see them.
What is next for you?
Reaching out to for help to seek empowerment, to seek answers to your relationship struggles, to redesign life in midlife or to reignite your marriage, to create peace and harmony, or to simply learn new skills is an act of LOVE. Do not suffer in silence!
Give yourself the gift of a ‘Get Unstuck Intensive’ session with me and change the way you see your relationship or life shift forever.
My methodology is easy, efficient and effective.
It takes a coach to speak to your reality, to shake up old patterns and to help you uncover what you cannot see.
I am here for you!
Sylvia E. Stauffer Neff
Empowerment & Leadership Coach - Relationship Expert